girl's space
Welcome to girl's space! This is a blog where I'll constantly be uploading tips and tricks girls may find helpful and useful. the goal is mainly to help other girls in need of advice to possibly ease up their every day life- but also to make you feel like the brightest shining star on the globe!I wish you a great time on here, see you around babe!
important sections:
introduction
who am I ?
my name is Lana, I was born year 2005 in Sweden. to put things simple, i’m just another girl who got her head stacked with ideas of who I wanna blossom into and how I want people to perceive me. to be honest, i’m not all that confident in myself and my work but every day is a challenge and i’m constantly on the road of improvement.
I assume i’m in my little questioning phase that every teenager likes to enter once or twice in their lifetime, therefore I’d like too blame every freaky thing I mention on here on dear teenage-hood..
"why did you start your own blog ?"
Well, since little i’ve always loved writing (not very into reading so i’d rather do the writing.)
my uncle’s wife has been in my life ever since my first birthday party, which means I carry a whole 15 years of gratitude towards her. she herself used to have a blog and frankly it seemed to go very well, ever since i’ve always wanted to open up my own space where I write a bunch of crap… with a little twist to it. my personal and not very personal tips from a girl- to another.
likes and dislikes!
First and foremost, I absolutely adore the color pink... yes.. shocker huh? not really, but truly it's so cute and pure I need at least 90% of my things and products to be pink.
as if not obvious yet, beauty is my true hobby. "beauty" is so universal, and I think that's a perfect way to describe my interests and love for beauty. makeup, skincare, haircare, health, fashion etc etc... this is exactly what I wanna provide for you guys, tips I can share with everyone reading who may be in need. if you look at it- it's a win win situation, I get to write about the one thing I enjoy most, and you get to take all this information with you and perhaps take use of it! I in no way think I'm a professional, but I can confidently state that I've got quite the experience.
I love helping, being there for people. I think I have a hard time rejecting and declining- meaning in the long run, please don't take advantage of my generosity... been there many times.I think I have a hard time accepting selfish people into my life, and I'm happy that I don't tend to attract those kind of people. if I do, count your days in my life /light hearted. confidence is great, but people who constantly talk about themselves and manage to turn things onto them is one of my biggest icks. listen to your friend, and show that you care. I most definitely will talk more about this in a post of mine. oh and I hate bugs! anyway... lol. I'll have to finish this another day.
crazy. I kept blaming it on myself and that I was doing something wrong, maybe looked a certain way or had totally weird interests. this is one of the mental terrorising things we humans can do to us, blaming ourselves for something we cannot control.. but can change. we have the power to stand up for ourselves and say no, decline, thank you next please. but many of us are afraid, afraid to fail or won't see a change for the better.
there is no need to change yourself unless you are harming the people around you. the only thing you do need to fix though, is your mindset. once I stopped being a people pleaser and more of a -acknowledge my worth- type of person I realised how every issue of mine slowly just disappeared. I started searching for the root as to why I was depressed, isolated in my room and anxious of what people thought of me or spat of me behind my back. the root to me, may not be the same as for you however I'll be mentioning my experiences later on.
Mental Health
for this thread I advice you to get comfy, get yourself a cup of your fave drink, snack or perhaps some music, things are about to get deep.
as far as I can remember, I've struggled many many years with my mental health. I never quite got the hang of the reason why I've been feeling like this for so long. I think I must be very unlucky. here's why:
I've been surrounding myself with the wrong people my whole life. I think I always thrived on having a bigger circle, many friends, many people to turn to.. many people to turn against you. being a follower and not a leader. that was affecting my mental health like
' the biggest lie humans tell is "I'm okay" '
allow yourself to take a break. give yourself your 100% focus and attention for a week or more. delete your socials, if not unfollow and block the people you feel unsafe having on your socials! who are they anyway to snoop in your life if you two aren't friends. this is one of my personal tips that helped me out the most. maybe it's time to realise that your family and those two actual friends of yours are way more important than 100 friends who all are nothing but... trash.
top 3 best k-dramas to binge watch
in need of some k-dramas to binge this summer? I got you.
1. True Beauty
"After being bullied and discriminated because of her ugly looks, a high school girl transforms herself into a gorgeous "goddess" and quickly rises to fame after mastering the art of makeup via online tutorial videos."
This k-drama is probably my favorite one so far. the male cast is very attractive and I think the roles suit them extremely well. the female lead got a very touching back story which I find relatable, and don't we love triangle drama?
2. Nevertheless
"Park Jae-Eon is a university student, majoring in art. He seems nice to everyone and he is usually cheerful. Yet, he is really indifferent to others and he doesn't want to have a romantic relationship. Unexpectedly, he falls for Yoo Na-Bi and begins to change. Yoo Na-Bi is an art student at the same university as Park Jae-Eon. In her past, she broke up with her first love due to his unfaithful ways. After that, decided to become unswayed by love. She then meets Park Jae-Eon and develops feelings for him."
this k-drama is a bit more... sensational.. a little more spicy. perfect for when you wanna watch something more grown-up. the things I'd do to watch this for the first time all over again...
3. My First First Love
"The drama tells the story of five youths and their messy encounters with the concept of first love. Yun Tae-o is a college student whose friends — a college drop-out, a runaway family friend, and his long-time childhood friend — decide to unexpectedly move into his house, due to their own individual reasonings."
a pure drama. best way to describe this, however it's so elegant and binge worthy. think I watched this 3 times already.